How do we develop confidence? How do we grow into our best selves? These are some crucial questions that every person must ask themselves to find personal growth. However, many people don’t know how to do this; in fact, 85% of people in the US are thought to struggle with low self-esteem and poor confidence. This blog post looks at some ways you can boost your confidence.

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Fake it till you make it

There is a difference between being fake as a person and faking confidence. The likelihood is, the more effort you put into persuading others you are confident, the more confident you will feel. It will take practice, but before long, you won’t be faking it anymore.

Believe in yourself

Many people struggle with low self-esteem and poor confidence because they don’t believe in themselves. They feel like their life will never get better or that they are not good enough. This is especially true if you have had negative experiences in the past.

Instead of dwelling on things you can’t change, take a minute and think about what you are grateful for in your life right now. It might be difficult at first, but try to notice what makes you happy and what makes you feel alive—these will help you build a sense of self-confidence.

Wear clothing that makes you feel good

One way you can boost your confidence is to wear clothing that makes you feel confident. When you’re wearing something that makes yourself look great, it doesn’t matter if people are watching you or not. You’ll act like a confident person whether or not anyone else is looking at you.

Wearing clothes that make you feel good will also help reduce stress and anxiety, which will give your confidence a boost. Wear comfortable clothing and allow for easy movement so you can enjoy being yourself without feeling constricted.

Go out, buy that new outfit, head to the luxury handbag consignment retailer and wear what makes you feel good.

Pay attention to how those exuding confidence talk and behave.

It is important to realize that one of the best ways to build confidence is to watch how those exuding confidence talk and behave. When you pay attention to how they talk, you can learn a lot about them. They will likely have good posture, walk steadily, and speak with conviction. The same can be said for their behavior too. They will probably be very calm and composed in their actions.

Another way to get better self-confidence is by taking risks and trying new things. This can mean anything from joining a new club to starting your own company or volunteering for a cause that aligns with your values. Even if these seem like daunting tasks, start small–get something off the ground that shows that you are willing to take risks so you can eventually work yourself into bigger endeavors.

Use positive affirmations

Positive affirmations are great for boosting your confidence. They are designed to create positive thoughts and improve your mood.

Listing out everything you like about yourself is a great idea, but even just saying “I am confident” can help.

  • “I am confident in my abilities.”
  • “I can succeed.”
  • “I make good decisions.”
  • “My strengths matter to me.”

Repeating these statements will help you believe in yourself more and encourage you not to focus on your shortcomings.