Am I Good Enough for You?

Am I Good Enough for You?

When you need to find out that you really are enough.  Really.

Ever poured your heart out? Or, chased someone so incredibly hard that you literally felt as if you were running out of the air you breathe? Then, after all of that and what seems like a long while, you realize you can never have that person your heart desires? I know that I have, but "on the flip side" I have been guilty of hurting others, as well.

Am I not good enough? Am I not attractive enough? Am I not smart enough? Questions we have always asked ourselves, but why? Why do we do this to ourselves? Why do we as humans always question our own self-worth?

 "Love is PATIENT, Love is Kind…"

The majority of people become filled with bitterness, anger, and pain when love is not reciprocated to them.  We go through what I like to call the motion of emotions, also known as the 5 stages of grief.

Denial – "They still love me, they just need some time to realize it."

Anger – "Who the f–k do they think they are?"

Bargaining – "Well, maybe I will change myself for them."

Depression – "Why am I not good enough?"

and finally, Acceptance!

You want to know what? YOU ARE WORTHY!  You are so f'ing worthy of A LOVE so DEEP, A LOVE that's TRUE and  A LOVE that's REAL.  A love that will make your HEARTBEAT OUT OF YOUR CHEST.  One day, one day, you will cross paths with the right person. Until then, why force what is not meant to be?

"You are SO WORTHY of a LOVE that's DEEP."

Do you believe in the Universe? If you do, listen carefully. It will tell you many things about Love. Sometimes, it sends you warm fuzzy feelings. Other times, it tells you that it just wasn't meant to be.  It can be the timing is off; and, if it is intended to be, then the universe will magically align the stars, the moon, and that path. GOD, that damn path. That path that we all dream about, that path that we all want, that path that leads us to our "Happily Ever After."

"Twinkle twinkle little star, how I wonder where thou are?"

Once all the rainbows have faded, the twinkling stars clear up and the pain in your chest comes to a halt, this thing called reality kicks in. The realization that, it just wasn't meant to be.  You know what? I promise you that it is OK, and you will be OK. You are not everyone's cup of tea, but you are your own blend.

Don't ever stop BELIEVING. Don't ever stop BELIEVING. You are WORTHY!  Don't ever stop believing, you are AMAZING because one day…someone will cross your path and it will all make sense as to why you never gave up! You have now become that special person to someone who can't stop smiling because of you.  Someone who wakes up and sleeps with the thought of you. You will be the reason why their heart beats out of their chest. you will be their reason to why they never gave up; but, most importantly, YOU will be "Just the right cup of tea…"

 Sharon Angela Lee

Sharon Angela Lee is an empowered, inspired writer from the blog, YAIMSHARON.COM.  She says, "I truly believe we all have dreams, whether people believe it will happen or not, it does not matter because it all starts with YOU. We pave our paths to create our destiny and what differentiates us from the rest is we NEVER stop BELIEVING.  YOU are the reason to why I wake up and continue to blog. So that we can all grow to love ourselves that much more."

Make sure you read her blog and stay in touch via social media!




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